Welcoming a baby through surrogacy is a beautiful and unique experience. While the pregnancy may have been carried by someone else, the moment your baby arrives is the beginning of your parenthood journey. But once the delivery is over, many intended parents are left wondering: What’s next?
In this blog, we’ll walk you through how to support your surrogate-born baby after birth, including emotional bonding, legal and documentation steps, and the types of postnatal support services that can help make the transition smoother for your family.
1. Bonding with Your Baby
One of the most common questions intended parents have is: Will I feel connected to my baby right away? The answer is: yes—and sometimes it takes time, and that’s okay.
Ways to build connection in the early days:
Skin-to-skin contact as soon as possible after birth
Feeding (breastmilk or formula) by the intended parents to create intimacy
Talking, singing, and eye contact from the first hours
Cuddling and holding as often as possible
Remember: bonding is not instant for everyone. Be gentle with yourself.
2. Postnatal Care for the Baby
While the baby may have been born in a different location (sometimes even a different state), basic newborn care remains the same. But families who have gone through surrogacy may benefit from specialized postnatal services, such as:
Newborn care specialists to help during the first weeks
Night nannies or overnight support to allow parents to rest
Feeding & sleep guidance customized for newborns born via surrogacy (especially when there’s no breastfeeding)
Help adjusting to life in a temporary stay (if you're far from home)
3. Post-Birth Documentation & Legal Steps
Surrogacy often involves extra paperwork and legal steps after the baby is born. You may need to:
Obtain a birth certificate with intended parents’ names
Complete a Post-Birth Order (PBO) if not already filed
Handle notarizations and legal declarations
Apply for passports or travel documents if returning internationally
Some parents work with agencies who help coordinate this, while others need extra support on the ground to gather, notarize, and submit required documents.
Our service can help streamline this process for you—especially in those early, sleep-deprived days.
4. Support for the Intended Parents
The arrival of your baby is joyful—but also emotionally intense. You may be far from family, navigating a temporary stay in a different state or country, and adjusting to parenthood all at once.
Here’s how to support yourself during this time:
Have someone assist with meals, errands, or baby care
- Rest when possible—especially if jet lag is involved
- Talk openly with your partner or a support professional
- Allow time to process your surrogacy experience emotionally
- We also offer emotional check-ins, wellness referrals, and newborn care support tailored to surrogacy families.
5. How We Can Help Your Surrogacy-Born Baby Thrive
At Miracle Angels Resolution, we understand the specific needs of families welcoming a baby through surrogacy. Our postnatal services are designed to reduce stress, offer comfort, and create space for bonding during this unique chapter of your life.
We offer:
In-home or temporary housing support for newborn care
- Help with post-birth documentation and notary coordination
- Newborn feeding, soothing, and sleep guidance
- Emotional support and wellness monitoring for new parents
- Personalized assistance for international families or cross-state births